Why men fantasise about big
chests!!!!!!!!!!
Nobody
can deny the beauty of a woman’s breasts as they are a source of sensuality for
both admirers and owners alike. Breasts are an essential food source for
babies. A woman’s breasts are as important to her as a man’s sex organ is to
him and they seem to drive men of all ages wild with fantasy and desire. But do
all men really fantasise about big breasts? The society seems to accept the
fact that men prefer them big, but it is unclear exactly why they are drawn to
an impressive cleavage. Today, we shall attempt to explain why men are so
passionate about tiny waists and voluptuous female bodies. Although 70 per cent
of men say they prefer large breasts, many women are happy with smaller ones.
When asked if they would like to have larger breasts (without having to
experience any pain, or pay a kobo for them) only five per cent of women said
yes. Over the last 20 years, the average bra size has gone up from a 36B to a
40B. Although women accept that nature has given them breasts, they accept the
fact that men and society seem to prefer large breasts. They are still haunted
by the fact that big-breasted women steal the show. But do they? Have you
wondered why men find big breasts so attractive? Scientists, psychologists and
sex therapists have tried to address the issue. Men’s unending search for
motherly breasts may be the number one culprit and the reason is obvious: a
baby first feeds from his mother’s breast and so breasts continue to fascinate
him throughout his life, long after his interest in milk has disappeared. Because
his mother had large breasts when he was small, a man will try to find someone
who can ‘nourish’ him again. Many mothers are choosing to bottle-feed than
breast-feed their babies, but this does not seem to make their male off-spring
either indifferent to or, conversely, obsessed with large breasts. The fact
remains that the male child has a feel of big breasts while being hugged or
cuddled by his mum and he feeds longer on breasts than the female child. Another
simple physiological explanation is that large, firm breasts are an indicator
of good health. It is believed that a beautiful woman appears healthier than an
unattractive woman. Therefore, for men, large breasts and well-defined hips are
indicative of high sex hormone levels and fertility. The general belief is that
beautiful breasts bring forth beautiful children. When a man responds to a
beautiful curvy woman, he does so instinctively as a future father, just as a
woman responds to a kind, gentle, thoughtful, helpful, caring, handsome man
with broad shoulders, baritone voice and an athletic body. However, the primary
function of the breasts is not to delight men, but to feed infants. Many
changes occur in the breasts during pregnancy as a result of fluctuating
hormone levels. They can triple in size, increase in weight from 150-400g (the
average is 200g) to as much as 800-900g. Fortunately (or unfortunately for
those men who prefer large breasts), they quickly revert to their normal size. Women’s
faces are different. So do their breasts vary in size? There is nothing unusual
in having one breast larger than the other. On the contrary, it is unusual for
them to be the same size and shape: our entire body is asymmetrical and so are
our breasts. This difference in size can become more pronounced after
pregnancy. Breasts are objects of desire and most men freely admit to loving
them. Women are aware of this and that is why wives are encouraged to show off
their breasts to their husbands. They should delight in putting on seductive
lingerie and enjoy the wow effect of an almost transparent blouse or a plunging
neckline from their spouse. It seems that rather than overtly baring one’s breasts,
the challenge is to hint at what lies beneath. Some men are drawn to breasts
like a magnet; some love to worship them, fondle, lick and suck them. If you
fall into such categories of men, please note that when touched, the muscular
fibres of the breast contract, the nipple becomes engorged and erect. However,
be careful, not all breasts are equally responsive. Large breasts are not
necessarily the most sensitive and sometimes, smaller breasts can be
explosively sensitive. Sometimes, a mere touch on a wife’s breast is enough to
bring her to orgasm, while other women are almost totally unresponsive.
Therefore, husband, if your wife seems indifferent to your advances, there is
no point insisting. It is better to try and discover her other erogenous zones.
In addition, wives do not feel guilty if you do not enjoy breast play.
Remember, it is not unusual and things can change. I only really discovered my
breasts after my second child. Up until then, they didn’t really give me any
pleasure; they were just there to look at. Today, when my husband kisses or
caresses my breasts, it drives me wild,” says 34 year-old Patricia. Breasts
should be handled with care for guaranteed pleasure and a majority of wives
love having their breasts fondled. However, there is one important rule: be
gentle and handle them with care. Only a few wives enjoy having their breasts
pinched or manhandled. Many wives experience strong erotic pleasure when their
breasts are fondled. But they often complain that their spouses pay them insufficient
attention. There are countless ways to enjoy breasts foreplay! Using your
fingertips, trace first the outline of her breast and then the areola. Pressing
against the nipple and areola with the tip of your tongue often triggers a
strong sexual response. Then you can do whatever you like! You can suck on the
nipple, lick the breasts sensually or fondle both breasts at the same time. Drip
of honey trickled over the breasts in an air-conditioned room can spice things
up and really whet your appetite. Breasts are a symbol of femininity and wives
love their men to love their breasts. So, a few well-chosen compliments will
not do any harm and should help produce the desired effect. Another bit of
advice: the skin of the breasts is very thin and sensitive so, husbands, it is
best to shave beforehand. Try to avoid too much fondling during the build-up to
her period, as breasts can become heavy and painful at this time. Men’s nipples
are generally considered less sensitive than women’s are. However, it is still
best to caress them gently, with either your finger or tongue and be prepared
to stop if your husband does not seem to enjoy it. On the other hand, a man’s
chest is much more sensitive than a woman’s, particularly the ridge defining
the bottom of the pectoral muscles. Kiss your husband repeatedly in this area,
tickle him gently with your tongue, caress him with your fingertips or lightly
scratch him. He may be surprised to discover just how sensitive his chest is! Apart
from the silicon ‘breast extender pad’, implants could make them bigger. There
are two types of implants: silicone and saline. Silicone gives best results in
terms of appearance and feel. When saline implants are used in very thin women,
they can form small unattractive ridges, caused by water on the top of the
implant, that are visible under the skin. On the other side, we also have wives
with
Breasts
that are too large. Are your breasts too large; have they troubled you since
adolescence, making it difficult for you to play sport or dress well? Some
women bunch their shoulders in an attempt to hide what they perceive to be an
abnormal breast shape. Some women feel handicapped by large breasts and find
them difficult to live with. To this, researchers are also of the opinion that
good bra will still give a tremendous assistance. In addition, if such women
are comfortable with surgery, they should consult with their family doctors. Although
many men appear to prefer large breasts, luckily, many women find that this is
not the case. Men, being men, love all kinds of breasts, whatever the size. As
long as they have something that they can call “their own,” many of them are
contented!
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